Lately, I’ve noticed that many new devotees of Hekate seem to be struggling with the idea of offerings, questioning whether what they are giving is good enough or if the Goddess will approve. This concern often manifests in comments like, “Is this offering good enough?” or “Will Hekate like this?” It’s a question that seems to bring more stress than joy for many people, especially those who are just beginning their journey with Her.

While I’ve addressed some of these questions in my Hekate FAQ, I think it’s important to explore this topic in more depth. Offering something to a deity, especially one as multifaceted as Hekate, is not about following rigid rules or achieving perfection. The essence of an offering lies in sincerity and intention.

When you approach the concept of offerings, it helps to first reflect on their purpose. Why do we give offerings? It’s not about appeasing a deity or meeting a checklist of requirements. Offerings are a way to express gratitude, to honor the presence of a divine being in our lives, and to build a connection. They are deeply personal acts, imbued with meaning that comes from the heart.

Think of it from Hekate’s perspective for a moment. Imagine standing before Her with an offering in hand. Would She value eggs and garlic simply because you heard that’s what you’re “supposed” to offer? Or would She find more meaning in something you chose because it holds a special significance for you? Perhaps it’s a helping of your favorite meal, or even a poem or drawing created just for Her.

The intention behind the act is what makes it meaningful. Hekate, as a Goddess Who walks between the worlds and sees beyond the surface, is unlikely to be swayed by offerings made out of obligation or a desire to follow tradition for tradition’s sake. What She values is the love, thought, and connection you pour into your offering.

This is where many new devotees get caught up. They feel pressure to do things “right” or to follow a traditional approach, worrying that they might offend the Goddess if their offerings aren’t perfect. But the truth is, what’s right for someone else may not be right for you. Eggs, garlic, honey, and wine are often suggested as traditional offerings because of their historical or symbolic connections to Hekate. They can be powerful gifts if they resonate with you. However, they are by no means the only ways to honor Her.

Consider the things that have personal meaning to you. If you’re a writer, you might offer Her a poem or story. If you’re an artist, a drawing or painting created in Her honor could be far more significant than a chalice of wine. If you’re a gardener, perhaps a flower or herb you’ve grown and nurtured would carry a special energy. Even something as simple as a portion of your favorite meal can carry immense meaning when given with sincerity.

Offerings are about connection and gratitude. They are your way of saying, “Thank You for walking with me, for guiding me, for being present in my life.” It’s not about the object itself but the energy behind it. When you choose or create something with love and intention, that energy shines through, and that is what Hekate will recognize and appreciate.

So, if you ever find yourself doubting your offering, ask yourself this: what would feel more meaningful to you? A gift chosen out of obligation, or one given with thought and care, infused with the giver’s gratitude and love? The answer, when viewed through that lens, becomes much clearer.

Hekate is a Goddess of many paths and infinite connections. Her relationship with each devotee is unique, and that includes how She is honored. Trust in your instincts, and know that what matters most is the sincerity of your heart. Whether you offer Her a chalice of wine, a clove of garlic, or a heartfelt song sung in Her honor, She will feel the truth in your gesture.

Let go of the pressure to get it “right.” Instead, focus on the purpose of the offering. It is a bridge between you and Hekate, a moment of shared connection. With sincerity and intention, every offering, no matter how small or simple, can become a meaningful act of devotion.