I’ve been noticing a growing number of posts on social media from people asking about signs from Hekate. These posts are often filled with questions like: “Is the way this candle melted a sign from Hekate?” or “Look at how this flame is flickering! Is Hekate communicating with me?!” While I strive to approach these with patience and understanding, I’ll admit it’s difficult sometimes. It’s frustrating to see every mundane detail being attributed to Hekate without discernment, as though Her messages could be reduced to mere coincidences.

Here’s the thing: If you’re looking for signs, it’s important to take a step back and ask yourself, Did I ask Hekate for a sign? Did I ask Her to communicate through the candle’s wax or flame? Without a direct invitation or intention, you’re just overanalyzing natural occurrences. Candle wax melts, flames flicker, and these things happen naturally. For the love of Goddess, not everything is imbued with divine significance!

I even came across a video recently that made me shake my head. Someone was asking if Hekate was communicating with them because their candle’s flame was flickering wildly. They seemed convinced it was something mystical. But as I watched the video, I couldn’t help but notice they had a stick of incense burning right next to the candle. You could clearly see the smoke being blown in one direction, disturbed by some sort of airflow. It didn’t take long to realize there was central heating or air conditioning running in the background, creating a breeze. That’s not Hekate. That’s basic physics.

I understand the yearning behind these questions. Truly, I do. You want reassurance. You want to know if Hekate is with you, if She hears you, and if your devotion is seen. The answer to that is simple: YES. Hekate is a powerful Goddess with immense wisdom and awareness. She hears you, sees your efforts, and knows your heart. That’s not something you need to second-guess or doubt. But understanding Her communication is not always instant or obvious. It takes trust, intuition, and patience. It’s about learning to quiet the noise of overthinking and tuning in to the subtler, deeper ways She might be reaching out to you.

When Hekate chooses to communicate, it may indeed be subtle, but it won’t be vague or open to endless interpretation. Her signs carry a resonance, a weight, that leaves no room for doubt. They’re personal and profound, often aligning with the symbols or methods you’ve established in your relationship with Her. If you find yourself asking repeatedly, “Was that Hekate?” then chances are, it wasn’t. True signs don’t need you or strangers on the internet to talk you into believing them. They simply are.

Building a meaningful relationship with Hekate requires a shift in perspective. It’s not about combing through every mundane detail of life in search of hidden messages. It’s about nurturing trust and devotion, fostering a connection where Her presence feels natural and unmistakable. Signs from Hekate aren’t riddles meant to confuse you or make you doubt. They’re a bridge, a way of deepening your bond with Her.

If you’re wondering whether Hekate is reaching out to you, take a step back. Reflect. Set your intentions clearly. Ask Her directly for a sign if you feel the need, and trust that She will respond in a way you’ll recognize when the time is right. There’s no need to grasp at every flickering flame or melted candle. Hekate’s communication isn’t about creating uncertainty. It’s about offering clarity and connection. Open your heart, trust in Her divine wisdom, and let the relationship unfold naturally. She’ll make herself known, and when She does, you’ll know.